Have your eyes ever glazed over as a speaker drones on and one, spouting statistics and facts? Do you even remember anything an hour later? What about the next day?
Now it’s your turn to be in front of your team. How are you going to reach and connect with them?
Do you communicate a lot, but don’t consider yourself a great storyteller?
It’s time to reach back in human history, and turn to the power of the story.
Storytelling has existed as the primary means of communicating among people even long before writing was developed. Success was measured by how much the audience remembered and a high value was placed on techniques that helped people remember things.
In spite of all the technological marvels available to leaders today, the simple but powerful use of a story often translates your ideas into realities in the listener’s minds. Stories are effective when they lodge in the heart of the listener, and are then acted on.
Solution #3 Make the listener, not you, the hero of your story
THE QUICK SUMMARY – Resonate, by Nancy Duarte
Resonate leverages techniques normally reserved for cinema and literature, revealing how to transform any story into an engaging journey. Using the techniques in Resonate, you’ll be able to:
- Leverage the hidden story structures inherent in great communication
- Connect with your audience empathetically
- Create captivating content
- Craft ideas that get repeated
- Inspire enthusiasm and support for your vision
Stories are the most powerful delivery tool for information, more powerful and enduring than any other art form.
A Simple Solution
Wouldn’t you like to have your audience leaning forward in their seats, anticipating the next few words you will be saying? A great story has that effect on listeners, and it begins with making the listener the hero of your story.
When trying to connect with someone while telling a story, you have to remember that it’s not all about you.
You are not the hero who will save the audience; the audience is your hero.
You need to defer to your audience because if they don’t engage and believe in your message, you are the one who loses. Without their help, your idea will fail.
Leaders need to take this to heart, place the people in the audience at the center of the action, and make them feel that the presentation is addressing them personally.
So what’s your role, then? You are the mentor. The audience is the one who’ll do all the heavy lifting to help you reach your objectives. You’re simply one voice helping them get unstuck in their journey.
When you change your stance from thinking you’re the hero to acknowledging your role as a mentor, you will find your viewpoint altered. A mentor has a selfless nature and is willing to make a personal sacrifice so that the hero can reach the reward. Audience insights and resonance can only occur when a presenter takes a stance of humility.
Nancy Duarte, Resonate
A NEXT STEP
Changing your stance from that of the hero to one of the storyteller will connect the listeners to your idea and make them the hero. When listeners become the hero and connect to your idea, they will change.
Good church leaders are telling stories all the time. As you prepare for your next leadership speaking opportunity it’s easy to become the center of the story. Remember to make the listener the hero instead of you.
By offering a clear choice of what is (their present situation) with what could be (a better future), the people you lead become the hero. As you preach, are you making members of the congregation the hero? When you lead your church in a capital campaign, they are the heroes. As a team leader, your team should be the hero. In a small group, the group members are the hero.
Of course, every story related to the Gospel makes Jesus the hero.
Ultimately, you need to make your story about Jesus.
How will you know if you are becoming more effective with your stories? It’s simple: you will be accomplishing whatever you had hoped to accomplish by telling the story in the first place.
It’s time for you to step out and lead through your stories!
Part of a new series on 27gen, entitled Wednesday Weekly Reader
Regular daily reading of books is an important part of my life. It even extends to my vocation, where as Vision Room Curator for Auxano I am responsible for publishing SUMS Remix, as biweekly book “summary” for church leaders. I’m going to peruse back issues of both SUMS and SUMS Remix and publish excerpts each Wednesday.
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