Empathy to Impact: Can Design Thinking Solve the World’s Problems?

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Social sector innovators are discovering the power of design thinking to address challenges of all scales, from fighting hunger and promoting sustainability to streamlining administrative tasks and enhancing healthcare outcomes. In a shift towards action, design thinking is bringing together those who seek solutions, rather than just another meeting. Today, design thinking is being implemented across various organizations and professions. As illustrated by its success in diverse scenarios – from aiding farmers in Mexico to improving mental health services in Australia – design thinking offers a common thread and perhaps even represents a movement towards a new way of problem-solving.

Facing especially wicked problems, social sector organizations are searching for powerful new methods to understand and address them. Design Thinking for the Greater Good goes in depth on both the how of using new tools and the why. As a way to reframe problems, ideate solutions, and iterate toward better answers, design thinking is already well established in the commercial world. Through ten stories of struggles and successes in fields such as health care, education, agriculture, transportation, social services, and security, the authors show how collaborative creativity can shake up even the most entrenched bureaucracies―and provide a practical roadmap for readers to implement these tools.

Design thinkers Jeanne Liedtka, Randy Salzman, and Daisy Azer explore how major agencies like the Department of Health and Human Services and the Transportation and Security Administration in the United States, as well as organizations in Canada, Australia, and the United Kingdom, have instituted principles of design thinking. In each case, these groups have used the tools of design thinking to reduce risk, manage change, use resources more effectively, bridge the communication gap between parties, and manage the competing demands of diverse stakeholders. Along the way, they have improved the quality of their products and enhanced the experiences of those they serve. These strategies are accessible to analytical and creative types alike, and their benefits extend throughout an organization. This book will help today’s leaders and thinkers implement these practices in their own pursuit of creative solutions that are both innovative and achievable.

Design Thinking for the Greater Good isn’t just another addition to the growing design thinking literature. It carves out a distinct and crucial space by focusing on how the principles and practices of design thinking can be powerfully applied to address complex social challenges and drive positive societal impact.

At its core, Design Thinking for the Greater Good argues that the human-centered, iterative, and creative problem-solving approach of design thinking is uniquely suited to tackle the often messy and multifaceted issues faced by non-profits, social enterprises, government agencies, and even socially conscious businesses. The authors move beyond the traditional business applications of design thinking, demonstrating its transformative potential in areas like poverty reduction, healthcare access, environmental sustainability, and education reform.

One of the key ideas emphasized throughout the book is the paramount importance of deep empathy. The authors stress that understanding the needs, motivations, and contexts of the people being served is not just a preliminary step but an ongoing and integral part of the design thinking process. They illustrate this with compelling examples, such as the work of IDEO.org in developing affordable and culturally appropriate sanitation solutions in developing countries. By immersing themselves in the lives of the communities they were trying to help, the designers gained invaluable insights into the real barriers and opportunities, leading to solutions that were not only functional but also sustainable and embraced by the users. This went beyond simply asking users what they wanted; it involved observing their daily routines, understanding their cultural norms, and feeling their frustrations firsthand.

The book also highlights the power of prototyping and experimentation in the social sector. Often, organizations working for the greater good face significant constraints in terms of resources and risk tolerance. However, the authors persuasively argue that low-fidelity prototyping – creating quick and inexpensive versions of potential solutions – allows organizations to test assumptions, gather feedback, and learn rapidly without committing significant resources upfront. For example, consider a non-profit developing a new program to support at-risk youth. Instead of launching a full-scale initiative, they might first pilot a smaller version with a select group, using simple tools like storyboards and role-playing to get feedback from both the youth and the staff. This iterative approach allows for course correction and ensures that the final solution is more likely to be effective and impactful.

Another crucial concept explored is the need for systems thinking. Social problems are rarely isolated; they are often deeply embedded within complex systems of interconnected factors. The book emphasizes the importance of understanding these systems, identifying leverage points, and designing interventions that address the root causes rather than just the symptoms. For instance, when tackling food insecurity, a design thinking approach might not just focus on providing food aid but also explore the underlying issues of access, affordability, and agricultural practices within the broader food system. This holistic perspective allows for the development of more sustainable and long-term solutions.

The authors also delve into the challenges and nuances of applying design thinking in the context of social impact. They acknowledge that unlike purely market-driven contexts, measuring success in the social sector can be more complex and require different metrics. They discuss the importance of defining clear goals, identifying relevant indicators, and using both qualitative and quantitative data to assess the impact of design-led interventions. They share examples of organizations that have successfully used design thinking to not only create innovative solutions but also to develop robust evaluation frameworks to demonstrate their effectiveness to funders and stakeholders.

Furthermore, Design Thinking for the Greater Good underscores the importance of collaboration and co-creation. Addressing complex social issues often requires bringing together diverse perspectives and expertise. The book showcases examples of successful design thinking projects that involved not only designers and organizational staff but also the beneficiaries themselves, community leaders, policymakers, and other stakeholders. This collaborative approach fosters a sense of ownership, ensures that solutions are relevant and culturally appropriate, and builds stronger, more resilient initiatives. For example, a project aimed at improving maternal healthcare in a rural community might involve healthcare providers, community health workers, pregnant women, and their families in the design process to ensure that the proposed solutions address their specific needs and concerns.

The book is rich with case studies that bring these key ideas to life. From initiatives aimed at improving access to clean water and sanitation to programs designed to empower marginalized communities and foster economic development, the examples illustrate the tangible impact that design thinking can have on real-world problems. These case studies are not just anecdotal; they provide practical insights into the methods and tools used, the challenges faced, and the lessons learned.

Design Thinking for the Greater Good offers a compelling and practical framework for leveraging the power of design thinking to address pressing social challenges. It moves beyond the theoretical and provides actionable guidance, supported by real-world examples, for individuals and organizations seeking to create positive change. The book’s emphasis on empathy, experimentation, systems thinking, collaboration, and rigorous evaluation provides a roadmap for applying design thinking principles effectively in the social sector. It serves as an inspiring call to action, demonstrating that by embracing a human-centered and iterative approach, we can unlock innovative solutions and build a more just and sustainable world for all. 

Design thinking is not just for designers; it’s for anyone who is passionate about tackling complex problems and creating meaningful impact in their communities and beyond. It empowers readers to see the world through a different lens and to approach social challenges with creativity, empathy, and a relentless focus on the needs of the people they serve.

Part of a regular series on 27gen, entitled Wednesday Weekly Reader.

During my elementary school years one of the things I looked forward to the most was the delivery of “My Weekly Reader,” a weekly educational magazine depicted above, designed for children and containing news-based current events.

It became a regular part of my love for reading, and helped develop my curiosity about the world around us.

The Simplest Way to Change the World: One Meal, One Conversation, One Neighbor at a Time

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In a world grappling with complex problems and a pervasive sense of disconnection, Dustin Willis and Brandon Clements offer a refreshingly accessible and profoundly impactful solution in their book, The Simplest Way to Change the World: Biblical Hospitality as a Way of Life. Their central thesis is both straightforward and revolutionary: the most effective way to transform our communities and the world at large is by emulating the simple, relational ministry of Jesus – primarily through sharing meals and engaging in authentic conversations with those around us, starting with our neighbors.

Willis and Clements challenge the notion that global impact requires grand gestures or extensive resources. Instead, they argue that Jesus’s ministry was characterized by intentional presence, genuine curiosity about individuals, and the radical hospitality of sharing meals. He met people where they were, listened to their stories, addressed their immediate needs, and invited them into deeper relationship. The authors contend that by adopting this model in our own lives, we can create ripples of positive change that extend far beyond our immediate reach.

The book dismantles the barriers we often erect between ourselves and others – busyness, fear of awkwardness, and the misconception that we need to have all the answers. Willis and Clements emphasize that genuine connection doesn’t require perfection or a meticulously planned agenda. It simply requires a willingness to open our lives and our homes to those around us, offering a space of welcome and authentic engagement. They share numerous inspiring stories of individuals and communities who have embraced this simple approach, witnessing remarkable transformations in their neighborhoods and beyond.

The Simplest Way to Change the World isn’t about adding another item to our already overflowing to-do lists. Rather, it’s about shifting our perspective and infusing our everyday interactions with intentionality. It’s about seeing the divine potential in every person we encounter, from the barista at our local coffee shop to the family living next door. By prioritizing presence over programs and conversations over campaigns, we can cultivate genuine relationships that foster understanding, empathy, and ultimately, positive change.

The authors highlight the power of the table as a central point of connection. Sharing a meal breaks down social barriers, creates a relaxed atmosphere, and provides a natural context for meaningful conversation. It’s in these shared moments that we can truly see and be seen, hear and be heard, and begin to understand the unique stories and needs of those around us. This simple act of hospitality, consistently offered, can be a powerful catalyst for building trust and fostering a sense of belonging.

Top Five Applications of Home Hospitality in Changing the World

Home hospitality, as advocated by Willis and Clements, goes beyond polite entertaining. It’s a deliberate act of extending welcome and creating space for connection that can have profound ripple effects. Here are five key applications in the context of changing the world, one relationship at a time:

Intentional Meal Sharing with Neighbors: Regularly inviting neighbors over for simple meals – whether it’s a potluck, a barbecue, or just sharing leftovers – creates consistent opportunities for interaction and relationship building. This breaks down the anonymity of neighborhood living and fosters a sense of community where people know and care for one another. For instance, hosting a monthly “pizza night” for families on your street can become a cherished tradition.

Creating a Welcoming Space for Conversation: Your home can become a safe and inviting space for deeper conversations. This could involve inviting a neighbor struggling through a difficult time for coffee and a listening ear, or hosting a small group discussion on a topic of shared interest. Offering a space free from distractions signals that you value their presence and perspective.

Extending Hospitality to the Margins: Following Jesus’s example, home hospitality can be intentionally extended to those who are often overlooked or marginalized in our communities. This might involve inviting someone who is new to the area, someone experiencing loneliness, or someone from a different cultural background for a meal or conversation. This act of radical welcome can break down societal barriers and foster understanding.

Building Bridges Through Shared Experiences: Hosting informal gatherings centered around shared interests or local events can be a powerful way to connect with a diverse group of people. This could be a book club, a movie night, or a gathering to watch a local sporting event. These shared experiences provide natural conversation starters and help build connections beyond superficial interactions.

Practicing Open-Door Hospitality: While not always feasible, cultivating a spirit of open-door hospitality – being willing to welcome unexpected guests or offer spontaneous help – can create opportunities for organic connection. This might involve offering a cold drink to a neighbor working in their yard on a hot day or inviting someone in out of the rain. These small acts of spontaneous generosity can have a significant impact.

Next Steps to Take

Embracing the simple yet profound approach of Willis and Clements is a journey that begins with small, intentional steps. Here are some practical next steps you can take to start changing the world, one relationship at a time:

  1. Identify Your Immediate Neighbors: Make a conscious effort to know the names and a little about the people who live closest to you. If you don’t know them, take the initiative to introduce yourself. A simple knock on the door with a small gesture, like a baked treat or a plant, can be a great icebreaker.
  2. Plan a Simple Shared Meal: Invite one or two neighboring households for a casual meal in the next week or two. Keep it low-pressure and focus on creating a relaxed atmosphere for conversation. Don’t worry about having a perfect home or a gourmet meal; the focus is on connection.
  3. Initiate Meaningful Conversations: When you do connect with your neighbors, practice active listening. Ask open-ended questions and show genuine interest in their lives, their stories, and their perspectives. Put away distractions and be fully present in the conversation.
  4. Look for Opportunities to Serve: Pay attention to the needs around you. Is a neighbor struggling with yard work? Could someone use a ride to the store? Offer simple acts of service that demonstrate care and build goodwill.
  5. Be Consistent and Patient: Building genuine relationships takes time and consistency. Don’t be discouraged if initial interactions feel awkward or superficial. Keep showing up, keep offering hospitality, and trust that meaningful connections will develop over time.
  6. Expand Your Circle Intentionally: Once you’ve begun connecting with your immediate neighbors, consider how you can extend this approach to others in your wider community – perhaps someone at work, in your faith community, or involved in a local organization.
  7. Reflect on Jesus’s Example: Regularly reflect on the ways Jesus interacted with people. Notice his intentionality, his compassion, and his focus on building relationships through simple acts of love and hospitality. Let his example inspire your own efforts.
  8. Share Your Experiences: As you begin to experience the power of this simple approach, share your stories with others. Encourage them to embrace the art of neighboring and to discover the transformative potential of genuine connection.

The Simplest Way to Change the World offers a powerful antidote to the overwhelming challenges we face. By focusing on the person in front of us, sharing a meal, and engaging in authentic conversation, we can begin to build stronger communities, foster greater understanding, and truly embody the love of Jesus in our everyday lives. The revolution doesn’t start with a grand announcement; it begins with a simple invitation to our table.

Wisdom Intelligence – The Catalytic Skill of the Modern Elder

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Across 40+ years of purposeful pivots – from launching one of the first large-church computer networks and producing daily children’s television shows in 1983, to developing Auxano’s VisionRoom digital‑clarity platform three decades later – every transition has forged raw experience into what I call Wisdom  Intelligence. 

Pattern‑spotting across industries, translating complexity into clarity, and turning challenges into strategic advantage became less a talent than a tempered competency, honed each time I stepped out of a familiar role and into the learning zone. 

This opening essay launches a 12‑part exploration of the Modern Elder’s core capacities distilled from that journey. We begin with Wisdom Intelligence because it is the catalytic skill – the cognitive “Rosetta Stone” that lets seasoned leaders synthesize decades of wins, failures, and sideways moves into the foresight that teams  of all ages across all organizations need right now. Master it, and the remaining competencies – intergenerational collaboration, digital fluency, legacy thinking, and more – unfold with surprising ease.

What Is Wisdom Intelligence?

Wisdom intelligence differs fundamentally from other forms of intelligence. While IQ measures raw cognitive processing and emotional intelligence addresses understanding of emotions, wisdom intelligence represents the ability to synthesize decades of experience into meaningful, contextualized insights that guide decisions and actions.

Dr. Chip Conley, who pioneered the modern elder concept, describes wisdom intelligence as “the ability to not just possess knowledge but to apply it judiciously in complex situations.” This form of intelligence combines pattern recognition from past experiences with discernment about which patterns remain relevant in changing circumstances.

Wisdom intelligence manifests in several key ways:

  • Recognizing underlying principles amid complexity
  • Balancing short-term needs with long-term consequences
  • Distinguishing between information and genuine knowledge
  • Sensing when to apply proven solutions versus exploring new approaches
  • Understanding human nature and organizational dynamics at a systemic level

The Alchemy of Experience

What makes wisdom intelligence powerful is how it transforms raw experience into actionable insight. This process involves several cognitive steps that develop over time:

First, the modern elder engages in reflective practice – not just accumulating experiences but analyzing them critically. This reflection often reveals broader patterns and universal truths that transcend specific situations. Next comes integration, where these observations connect with other knowledge domains, creating a rich contextual framework for understanding.

The final stage – perhaps the most crucial – is discernment. Here, the modern elder develops the judgment to determine which lessons from the past apply to current circumstances and which do not. This prevents one of the greatest pitfalls of experience: applying outdated solutions to new problems.

Cultivating Wisdom Intelligence

While wisdom intelligence typically develops through years of experience, it can be actively cultivated through intentional practices:

  • Reflective Journaling: Regular documentation of professional experiences, decisions, and outcomes creates a personal knowledge base that reveals patterns over time. The most effective approach involves not just recording events but analyzing why certain approaches succeeded or failed.
  • Decision Review Process: Systematically examining past decisions – both successful and unsuccessful – helps identify recurring decision-making pitfalls and successful strategies. Modern elders often establish personal “review boards” where they candidly assess their judgments with trusted peers.
  • Cross-Domain Learning: Seeking knowledge from fields outside one’s primary expertise creates cognitive connections that generate fresh insights. This interdisciplinary thinking helps modern elders recognize patterns that specialists might miss.
  • Scenario Planning: Mentally rehearsing various outcomes for important decisions strengthens predictive capabilities and reveals potential blind spots in thinking.

Wisdom Intelligence in Action

Reflecting on my 40+ years in multiple positions with the common thread of serving the church (internally as a staff member or externally as a consultant), I have seen how wisdom intelligence transforms experience into insight, allowing the modern elder to contribute unique value through pattern recognition, contextual understanding, and nuanced judgment.

Here are a few examples:

  • Pattern Recognition Across Different Organizations: My career progression across multiple organizations (Highview Baptist, Prays Mill Baptist, First Baptist Huntersville, J.H. Batten, and Auxano/Lifeway) demonstrated my ability to recognize underlying patterns in organizational development. In each position, I identified opportunities to expand my role beyond initial responsibilities, showing wisdom intelligence in spotting systemic needs before they were formally recognized. 
  • Transformational Knowledge Transfer: Creating and delivering the Guest Experience Boot Camp (2017-2021) that trained over 100 church teams and 525 participants shows how I transformed decades of experiential knowledge into a structured learning environment. This exemplified wisdom intelligence by distilling complex patterns observed across many organizations into teachable principles.
  • Cross-Domain Synthesis: My transition from pastoral staff roles to a development role in church design/build and then consulting demonstrates the ability to apply principles from one domain to another. For example, the development of a “consultant sales model” at J.H. Batten drew on relationship skills from pastoral work combined with business acumen. This cross-pollination of insights across fields is a hallmark of wisdom intelligence.

Teaching Wisdom Intelligence

Perhaps the most valuable aspect of wisdom intelligence is that it can be shared. Modern elders effectively transfer their wisdom intelligence through:

  • Asking powerful questions that prompt others to discover insights themselves
  • Sharing relevant stories that illustrate principles rather than just solutions
  • Creating decision frameworks rather than prescribing specific answers
  • Providing context for current challenges by connecting them to historical patterns

The Organizational Value

Organizations that recognize and leverage wisdom intelligence gain significant advantages. Modern elders provide stabilizing perspectives during crises, help avoid repeating organizational mistakes, and build decision-making frameworks that outlast their tenure.

In an era of abundant information but scarce wisdom, the modern elder’s ability to transform experience into applicable insight represents an increasingly valuable organizational asset. As workplaces continue to navigate unprecedented change, wisdom intelligence may be the difference between organizations that merely survive and those that genuinely thrive.

The journey to developing wisdom intelligence is lifelong – it’s not simply the automatic result of aging but the intentional cultivation of reflection, integration, and discernment. For those aspiring to become modern elders, it’s the cornerstone competency upon which all others build.

Next week: Intergenerational Collaboration

From Ove to Otto: The Heart Beneath the Hard Shell

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The literary world gifted us Ove, and cinema, Otto – both initially presented as curmudgeonly figures, their exteriors hardened by life’s inevitable knocks. Yet, beneath their gruff façades lay reservoirs of profound wisdom and a deep capacity for compassion, often revealed through unexpected connections with those younger and more vibrant. These characters, while fictional, serve as potent reminders of the multifaceted experience of growing older, a journey often unfairly shadowed by societal stigma.

One of the most poignant aspects of aging, as depicted in these narratives, is the accumulation of wisdom. Life, with its inherent joys and sorrows, etches lessons onto the hearts and minds of those who have traversed its many seasons. Ove’s meticulous nature and Otto’s adherence to rules weren’t simply quirks; they were often rooted in a lifetime of experience, a deep understanding of how things work, and a desire for order in a world that can feel increasingly chaotic. This wisdom manifests not just in practical skills – fixing a leaky pipe, understanding the intricacies of a neighborhood – but also in a deeper understanding of human nature, resilience in the face of adversity, and the cyclical nature of life itself.

Illustration of Wisdom

Imagine a young couple struggling to assemble flat-pack furniture, their frustration mounting with each misaligned piece. An older neighbor, perhaps initially seen as out-of-touch, steps in with a calm demeanor, having assembled countless such items over the years. Seasoned eyes spot the crucial missing step, experienced hands work with an efficiency born of practice, turning a moment of stress into one of quiet accomplishment. This isn’t just about putting together furniture; it’s about the transfer of practical knowledge, a tangible link between generations.

Beyond wisdom, the elderly often possess a wellspring of compassion, often masked by a seemingly stern exterior. Ove’s gruff interventions in his neighborhood, while appearing critical, often stemmed from a deep-seated sense of responsibility and a genuine care for the well-being of his community. Similarly, Otto’s initial resistance to his new, boisterous neighbors eventually melts away, revealing a man capable of profound empathy and unexpected acts of kindness. This compassion isn’t always expressed through grand gestures but often through small, everyday acts of support, a listening ear, or a comforting presence in times of need.

Compassionate Example

Picture an elderly woman noticing a young single parent struggling with groceries and a crying child. Instead of simply observing, she offers a helping hand, carrying a bag or distracting the child with a gentle smile and a kind word. This simple act of empathy, born from years of navigating her own challenges and witnessing the struggles of others, can have a significant impact, offering a moment of respite and connection in an otherwise demanding day.

Despite the potential for wisdom and compassion, growing older is often accompanied by a pervasive societal stigma. The elderly can be made to feel invisible, their contributions undervalued, their opinions dismissed as outdated. They might face ageist stereotypes that portray them as frail, incompetent, or out of touch. This marginalization can lead to feelings of isolation, loneliness, and a diminished sense of self-worth. The initial perceptions of Ove and Otto as simply “grumpy old men” exemplify this stigma, overlooking the rich inner lives and valuable experiences they held.

The Heartaches That Shape Us

It’s crucial not to gloss over the heartaches that often accompany aging. The loss of loved ones, declining health, and the feeling of being left behind by a rapidly changing world are very real and deeply felt. Ove’s gruffness was, in part, a shield against the immense grief of losing his beloved wife. Otto’s initial despair stemmed from a similar loss and a feeling of purposelessness. These heartaches can shape an individual, sometimes leading to a seemingly prickly exterior. However, it is often through these very experiences that a deeper capacity for empathy and understanding is forged. Having weathered their own storms, the elderly can offer a unique form of solace and support to those facing their own challenges.

A Shift in Perspective

The stories of Ove and Otto, while tinged with sadness, ultimately offer a positive message. They highlight the importance of looking beyond superficial judgments and recognizing the inherent value and potential that resides within every individual, regardless of age. They encourage us to dismantle the stigma associated with growing older and to instead foster communities that value the wisdom, cherish the compassion, and embrace the unique contributions of our elders.

By shifting our perspective, we can move away from seeing aging as a period of decline and instead recognize it as a continuation of life, rich with experience and the potential for meaningful connection. Just as the seemingly rigid exteriors of Ove and Otto eventually cracked to reveal the warmth within, so too can our societal perceptions evolve to fully appreciate the enduring wisdom and boundless compassion of our aging population.

Recognizing their value enriches not only their lives but the very fabric of our communities.

Part of a regular series on 27gen, entitled Wednesday Weekly Reader.

During my elementary school years one of the things I looked forward to the most was the delivery of “My Weekly Reader,” a weekly educational magazine designed for children and containing news-based current events.

It became a regular part of my love for reading, and helped develop my curiosity about the world around us.

The Art of Neighboring: Cultivating Community One Door at a Time

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In an increasingly disconnected world, the simple yet profound act of knowing and loving our literal neighbors has the power to transform individuals, communities, and even the world. This is the central message of The Art of Neighboring: Building Genuine Relationships Right Outside Your Door by Jay Pathak and Dave Runyon. The book challenges the common tendency to view “neighbor” as a metaphorical concept, encompassing anyone in need across the globe, and instead calls for a radical shift in focus: prioritizing the people who live closest to us.

Pathak and Runyon argue that while global outreach and broader compassion are vital, neglecting our immediate neighbors often leads to a diluted and ineffective practice of love. By aiming for everyone, we often connect deeply with no one. Jesus, when asked to summarize the commandments, emphasized loving God and loving our neighbor as ourselves. The authors contend that Jesus’s initial audience would have naturally understood “neighbor” to mean those in their immediate vicinity. The parable of the Good Samaritan then served to expand their understanding of who qualifies as a neighbor, not to replace the importance of caring for those geographically close.

The Art of Neighboring isn’t just a theoretical discussion; it’s a practical guide filled with relatable anecdotes and actionable steps. The authors address common barriers to neighboring, such as busy schedules and fear of awkward interactions. They emphasize that building genuine relationships takes time, consistency, and a willingness to step outside our comfort zones. Small, regular acts of kindness and connection can accumulate into strong, meaningful bonds. The book encourages readers to move beyond superficial interactions and learn the names, stories, interests, and even needs of those living nearby.

A key principle highlighted is the distinction between being responsible to our neighbors and being responsible for them. While we are called to be present, supportive, and helpful, we must also recognize our own limitations and avoid taking on burdens that are not ours to carry. Healthy neighboring involves reciprocity – a willingness to both give and receive help. This mutual exchange fosters deeper connections and breaks down walls of isolation.

The ultimate motivation for neighboring, according to Pathak and Runyon, should be rooted in our faith and love for God, not as a means to an end. While sharing our faith may naturally arise within genuine relationships, it should never be the sole or ulterior motive for reaching out. Authentic love, offered unconditionally, often speaks louder than words.

Top Five Applications of Home Hospitality in Neighboring

Home hospitality serves as a powerful tool for building connections and demonstrating care for our neighbors. It moves beyond casual greetings and creates opportunities for deeper interaction and relationship building. Here are five key applications:

  1. Simple Shared Meals: Inviting a neighbor over for a casual meal, whether it’s a weeknight dinner, a weekend brunch, or even just sharing takeout on the porch, creates a relaxed atmosphere for conversation and connection. It doesn’t need to be elaborate; the focus is on the shared experience and the opportunity to learn more about each other. For example, inviting a new neighbor over for pizza shortly after they move in can be a welcoming gesture.
  2. Informal Gatherings: Hosting small, informal gatherings based on shared interests or neighborhood events can foster a sense of community. This could be a book club meeting, a game night, a potluck to celebrate a holiday, or watching a local sports team together. These events provide a low-pressure environment for neighbors to interact and build friendships.
  3. Offering Practical Help: Home hospitality can extend to providing practical assistance within your home. This could involve offering to watch a neighbor’s child for a few hours during an emergency, helping with a small home repair if you have the skills, or providing a temporary place to stay during a crisis. These acts of service demonstrate tangible care and build trust.
  4. Welcoming New Neighbors: Extending specific hospitality to those who have recently moved into the neighborhood is crucial. This could involve a welcome basket with local information and small treats, an invitation for coffee or a meal, or simply offering help with unpacking. Making newcomers feel seen and welcomed from the start can set the foundation for positive relationships.
  5. Creating Space for Vulnerability: As relationships deepen, home can become a safe space for sharing more personal aspects of life. Offering a listening ear over a cup of coffee, providing comfort during a difficult time, or celebrating milestones together within the intimacy of your home can foster deep and meaningful connections.

Next Steps to Take

Embracing the art of neighboring is a journey, not a destination. Here are some practical next steps you can take to begin or deepen your engagement with your immediate community:

  1. Learn Your Neighbors’ Names: Start with the basics. Make a conscious effort to learn the names of the people who live on either side of you, across the street, and in the houses directly behind you. A simple “Hi, I’m [Your Name]” can be the first step in building a connection.
  2. Initiate Simple Interactions: Look for opportunities for brief, friendly interactions. Wave hello when you see them outside, offer a compliment on their garden, or ask a simple question about the neighborhood. These small gestures can build familiarity and open the door for further conversation.
  3. Find Common Ground: Pay attention during your interactions to discover shared interests or experiences. Do you both enjoy gardening? Have children of similar ages? Frequent the same local park? Finding common ground provides natural topics for conversation and potential activities to share.
  4. Offer Small Acts of Kindness: Look for simple ways to be helpful. Offer to bring in their trash cans, water their plants while they’re away, or share extra produce from your garden. These small acts of service demonstrate care and build goodwill.
  5. Be Present and Available: Spend time in your front yard or on your porch. This increases your visibility and creates more opportunities for spontaneous interactions with passersby. Being physically present signals your openness to connection.
  6. Consider a Neighborhood Gathering: Take the initiative to organize a small, informal gathering. This could be a block party, a potluck picnic in a shared green space, or a casual coffee hour at your home. These events provide a structured opportunity for neighbors to meet and socialize.
  7. Listen More Than You Talk: When you do have conversations with your neighbors, practice active listening. Show genuine interest in what they have to say, ask follow-up questions, and remember details for future interactions.
  8. Pray for Your Neighbors: Consciously lift your neighbors up in prayer. Pray for their well-being, their families, and any specific needs you become aware of. This act of intercession can deepen your sense of connection and compassion.

The Art of Neighboring reminds us that the most profound acts of love and community building often begin right outside our front door. By intentionally cultivating relationships with those who live closest to us, we can create stronger, more vibrant, and more caring neighborhoods, one genuine connection at a time.

Building Modern Elder Competencies Through Career Transformation

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In a world that often values youth over experience, the concept of a Modern Elder offers a refreshing perspective on the value of wisdom accumulated over decades of professional life. My own 44-year employment journey has been a testament to how careers evolve, skills compound, and wisdom grows – not in spite of transitions, but because of them.

The Power of Transition

Transitions have defined my professional life, serving as inflection points that transformed challenges into growth opportunities. As I wrote in this post Final Approach: Reframing Life’s Unexpected Transitions, transitions aren’t merely endings but gateways to new beginnings. Each career pivot I’ve experienced – from media ministry to education, from construction to clarity consulting – required not just adaptation but transformation.

My journey began at Highview Baptist in Louisville (1981-1986) as Minister of Media, where I expanded audiovisual and communications departments in multiple areas including creating daily children’s educational shows and critical input into the launching of the ACTS satellite network. What seemed like a specialized role evolved as I embraced technological change, researching and implementing large church computer networks in 1983 – long before most churches considered digital infrastructure essential. This early willingness to evolve foreshadowed what would become a hallmark of the Modern Elder mindset: digital fluency coupled with perspective shifting.

The transitions continued through my tenure at Prays Mill Baptist in Georgia (1987-1994) and First Baptist Huntersville (1995-2004), where my responsibilities consistently expanded beyond initial job descriptions. Each transition within these roles – from education minister to administrative leader, from creating a volunteer development process to long-range planning – required the resilience and growth mindset now recognized as core competencies of Modern Elders.

Perhaps the most significant transition came in 2004 when I joined J.H. Batten Design Builders as Sales Development Director. This leap from ministry to commercial construction specializing in churches demanded courage and adaptability. Rather than seeing my prior experience as unrelated, I leveraged my organizational and people skills to create new business models, including a consultant sales approach and an industry certification process that expanded the company’s reach and influence.

As I wrote in The Last Click: Erasing Calendar Blocks, Embracing Possibilities, transitions require us to erase old expectations and embrace new possibilities. This perspective served me well when joining Auxano/Lifeway in 2012, where I brought the dream of an online information platform known as the Vision Room into reality. In addition, a long-held passion for Guest Experiences led to the creation of Guest Experience Boot Camps that trained over 500 church leaders from 126 churches in a four-year period.

The Modern Elder Concept

Since 2022, I have been deep diving into the concepts of a Modern Elder. Along the way, through conversations, connections, and observations, I have developed a framework for the basics of what makes a Modern Elder. The 12 Core Competencies of a Modern Elder represent a structure that resonates deeply with my experience. Unlike traditional models of retirement that suggest fading relevance, the Modern Elder concept celebrates the unique value that experienced professionals bring to organizations when they combine accumulated wisdom with continued growth.

Looking back, I recognize how these competencies manifested throughout my career:

Wisdom Intelligence developed as I synthesized experiences across different organizational contexts, allowing me to see patterns and solutions others might miss. This was particularly evident in my work creating clarity resources at Auxano that distilled complex organizational principles into actionable guidance.

Intergenerational Collaboration became essential as workplaces diversified. From being the youngest staff member in 1981 to working with younger colleagues and clients at Auxano beginning in 2012 required me to appreciate different communication styles while offering the perspective that only experience provides.

The early adoption of computer networks and complete ministry software in 1983 and later development of digital engagement systems in 2014 demonstrated Digital Fluency that many of my contemporaries lacked. Rather than resisting technological change, I embraced it as a tool for expanded impact.

The various leadership positions I’ve held – from educational ministry to sales development – sharpened my Emotional Intelligence as I navigated complex relationships and organizational dynamics. This same emotional awareness informed my approaches to guest experience training, where empathy serves as the foundation.

One particular competency – a Growth Mindset – has been developed over my entire life, but was highlighted for a period of over 8 years: the creation, launch, and almost daily work in a book excerpt/application project called SUMS Remix. With 227 bi-weekly issues, referencing 574 books, it was an integral part of my work, demonstrated an openness to learning, evolving, and challenging existing assumptions for leaders.

Perhaps most critical to my longevity has been Legacy Thinking. As I wrote in Growing Whole, Not Old: Moving from Traditional Retirement to Maximum Influence, the goal isn’t simply adding years but expanding influence through continuous learning and evolution.

A Personal Employment Journey

My career path defies linear description. Instead, it represents a series of expanding concentric circles, each building upon previous experience while venturing into new territory. From managing audiovisual departments to leading building campaigns, from developing volunteer programs to creating national certification processes, each role added new capabilities while drawing on established strengths.

The transition to Auxano/Lifeway in 2012 represented not just a new job but an integration of all previous experience. Establishing visionroom.com as an online clarity resource drew on my media background. Creating guest experience assessment and training programs leveraged my educational ministry and building consultant experience. Leading digital engagement efforts built upon my early technology adoption.

What appears as separate chapters in my resume actually represents the ongoing development of additional, interrelated competencies: 

  • Mentorship Excellence through educational leadership 
  • Perspective Shifting through consultative approaches
  • Resilience through multiple organizational transitions
  • Storytelling through content creation
  • Cultural Stewardship through change management
  • Humility through consistently embracing new challenges

As I wrote in Closing the Circle: A Grateful Goodbye and a New Beginning, career transitions represent opportunities to close one circle while beginning another. The Modern Elder doesn’t simply accumulate experience but transforms it into wisdom that benefits organizations and individuals alike.

The Circle Continues

My journey illustrates that careers aren’t meant to follow straight lines but rather to trace meaningful patterns that create ever-expanding impact. The Modern Elder doesn’t seek retirement in the traditional sense but rather maximum influence – using accumulated wisdom to guide others while continuing to grow personally.

The 12 competencies didn’t develop sequentially but emerged organically through challenges embraced and transitions navigated successfully. Each role change – whether within organizations or between them – required leaving comfort zones and entering learning zones where these competencies could develop.

As I contemplate future transitions, I do so not with anxiety but with anticipation. The Modern Elder path isn’t about clinging to past accomplishments but about leveraging them to create future impact. It’s about growing whole, not just growing old – integrating experience, wisdom, and continuous learning into a compelling whole that benefits organizations precisely because it brings perspective that youth alone cannot provide.

In a world of constant disruption, the Modern Elder offers not just adaptation but transformation – turning transitions from endings into beginnings, challenges into growth opportunities, and experience into wisdom that benefits generations to come.

From Oxford to Middle-earth: An Illuminating Journey Through Tolkien’s Creative Process

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Christopher Snyder’s The Making of Middle-earth: A New Look Inside the World of J.R.R. Tolkien offers readers a richly detailed exploration of the inspirations, influences, and intellectual foundations that shaped J.R.R. Tolkien’s legendary fictional world. This scholarly yet accessible work (revised edition 2022) stands as an essential companion for anyone seeking to understand the complex tapestry of mythological, linguistic, and historical threads that Tolkien masterfully wove into his literary creation.

The Scholar Behind the Story

Snyder, a medieval historian and professor at Mississippi State University, brings impressive academic credentials to his analysis of Tolkien’s world-building. Unlike many Tolkien scholars who approach the material primarily through literary criticism, Snyder’s background allows him to contextualize Tolkien’s creation within the historical and mythological traditions that influenced it. This perspective proves invaluable throughout the book, as Snyder meticulously connects Tolkien’s fictional elements to their real-world inspirations.

Structure and Content

The book is thoughtfully organized into thematic chapters that methodically examine different aspects of Tolkien’s creative process and influences. Beginning with biographical context, Snyder traces Tolkien’s early life, academic career, and the formative experiences that would later shape his fictional world. Particular attention is given to Tolkien’s traumatic experiences during World War I and how they informed his depiction of good versus evil in Middle-earth.

From there, Snyder delves into the linguistic foundations of Tolkien’s world – arguably the primary building block from which all other elements developed. As a philologist, Tolkien’s creation of Elvish languages preceded much of his mythology, and Snyder effectively demonstrates how these invented languages shaped the cultures, histories, and even geographies of Middle-earth. For Tolkien, language was not merely a tool for storytelling but the very essence from which his stories emerged.

The heart of the book explores the mythological, literary, and historical influences that informed Tolkien’s world-building. Snyder expertly analyzes connections between Middle-earth and Nordic mythology, Celtic legends, Arthurian romance, and Anglo-Saxon literature. Particularly strong is his examination of how “Beowulf” – a text Tolkien studied extensively throughout his academic career – provided crucial inspiration for elements ranging from Smaug the dragon to the cultures of Rohan.

What distinguishes Snyder’s analysis is his refusal to oversimplify. While identifying clear parallels between Tolkien’s creation and its influences, he also acknowledges the transformative nature of Tolkien’s imagination. Middle-earth was not merely a pastiche of borrowed elements but a cohesive secondary world that transcended its inspirations to create something genuinely original.

Visual Enrichment

The book is enhanced by thoughtful visual elements that complement the text. Maps, illustrations, and photographs help readers visualize both Tolkien’s world and its real-world inspirations. Particularly effective are comparisons of Middle-earth locations with their potential real-world counterparts, and illustrations of mythological figures that may have influenced Tolkien’s characters.

Scholarly Yet Accessible

One of the book’s greatest strengths is its balance between academic rigor and readability. Snyder writes with scholarly precision, grounding his analysis in thorough research and careful consideration of evidence. Yet his prose remains engaging and clear, making complex concepts accessible to general readers. This delicate balance allows the book to serve both as an introduction for newcomers to Tolkien scholarship and as a valuable resource for more experienced readers.

Snyder is careful to distinguish between documented influences and speculative connections, maintaining intellectual honesty throughout. When suggesting potential influences without direct evidence from Tolkien’s writings, he clearly frames these as possibilities rather than certainties – a refreshing approach in a field sometimes prone to overstatement.

Beyond the Movies

For readers whose primary experience with Middle-earth comes through Peter Jackson’s film adaptations, Snyder’s book offers a valuable broadening of perspective. While acknowledging the films’ importance in popularizing Tolkien’s work, Snyder maintains focus on the literary creation and its deeper meanings. This approach encourages readers to engage directly with Tolkien’s texts and the rich cultural traditions they draw upon.

Minor Shortcomings

If the book has a weakness, it lies in occasional repetition of certain themes across chapters. Some connections between Tolkien’s work and its inspirations are revisited multiple times, which can feel redundant to attentive readers. Additionally, while Snyder thoroughly examines the influences on Tolkien’s work, he devotes somewhat less attention to Tolkien’s own influence on subsequent fantasy literature and popular culture – an aspect that might have provided valuable context for understanding Middle-earth’s lasting significance.

Theological Dimensions

One particularly insightful aspect of Snyder’s analysis is his treatment of the religious and theological dimensions of Tolkien’s work. As a devout Catholic, Tolkien incorporated Christian themes into his mythology in subtle but profound ways. Snyder examines how Tolkien’s faith informed his conception of good and evil, his views on mortality and immortality, and his understanding of creation itself. This analysis helps explain the moral depth that distinguishes Tolkien’s work from many of its imitators.

The Making of Middle-earth stands as an essential contribution to Tolkien scholarship that simultaneously serves as an accessible entry point for general readers. Snyder’s expertise as a medieval historian brings fresh perspective to familiar material, illuminating connections that might escape notice in more narrowly literary analyses.

For serious Tolkien enthusiasts, the book provides a deeper understanding of the vast cultural heritage that informed Middle-earth’s creation. For casual fans, it offers an engaging introduction to the complex foundations underlying a beloved fictional world. And for those interested in creative processes more generally, it demonstrates how a singular imagination can transform diverse influences into something entirely new.

At a time when fantasy literature and media continue to dominate popular culture, Snyder’s book reminds us of the exceptional depth and thoughtfulness behind Tolkien’s pioneering work. By revealing the scholarly foundations of Middle-earth, Snyder helps us appreciate anew the remarkable achievement that continues to captivate readers nearly a century after Bilbo Baggins first stepped out of his comfortable hobbit-hole and into adventure.

Whether you’re a longtime Tolkien scholar or simply curious about how Middle-earth came to be, Snyder’s illuminating study deserves a place on your bookshelf – ideally right beside the dog-eared copies of The Hobbit and The Lord of the Rings that inspired your journey into Tolkien’s world in the first place.

Part of a regular series on 27gen, entitled Wednesday Weekly Reader.

During my elementary school years one of the things I looked forward to the most was the delivery of “My Weekly Reader,” a weekly educational magazine designed for children and containing news-based current events.

It became a regular part of my love for reading, and helped develop my curiosity about the world around us.

The Neighboring Church: Rediscovering the Heart of Christian Community

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In The Neighboring Church: Getting Better at What Jesus Said Matters Most, authors Rick Rusaw and Brian Mavis challenge the contemporary church to shift its focus from attractional models to incarnational ministry, emphasizing the profound impact of simply loving our neighbors. Drawing from their experiences at LifeBridge Christian Church, they argue that the most effective way to embody the Great Commandment – to love God and love our neighbors as ourselves – is not through elaborate programs but through genuine, everyday engagement with those around us.

The book stems from a simple yet powerful realization: author Brian Mavis’s neighbors were uninterested in attending a traditional church service but were open to exploring faith in the context of their own relationships and homes. This experience illuminated a crucial insight: many people are longing for authentic connection and a tangible expression of God’s love in their daily lives, something that can often be missed within the walls of a church building.

Rusaw and Mavis contend that the church has inadvertently created a culture where members are primarily focused on internal activities and programs, leaving little margin for meaningful interaction with their immediate neighbors. They advocate for a “neighboring” movement, where Christians are equipped and encouraged to intentionally build relationships with the people who live, work, and socialize near them. This isn’t about turning every interaction into an evangelistic opportunity but rather about cultivating genuine care and concern for the well-being of those in our sphere of influence. It’s about making “neighbor” a verb.

The authors highlight that being a good neighbor transcends organized church initiatives. It’s about noticing needs, offering practical help, sharing life, and extending hospitality. They emphasize that this approach mirrors Jesus’s own ministry, which was deeply rooted in relational engagement within communities. By prioritizing neighboring, the church can become less of an institution people attend and more of a network of individuals actively embodying Christ’s love in their respective neighborhoods.

The Power of Home Hospitality

A cornerstone of the “neighboring” philosophy presented in the book is the practice of home hospitality. Opening our homes is portrayed not as an obligation but as a powerful tool for building bridges, fostering connection, and demonstrating the love of Christ in a tangible way. It moves beyond formal entertaining and focuses on creating welcoming spaces where authentic relationships can flourish.

Here are five key applications of home hospitality, as inspired by the principles in The Neighboring Church:

  1. Building Relational Bridges: Inviting neighbors into your home, whether for a meal, coffee, or just a casual visit, creates opportunities for deeper connection beyond surface-level interactions. It allows you to learn about their lives, families, joys, and struggles in a relaxed and personal setting. For instance, hosting a neighborhood barbecue can be a simple way to break the ice and foster a sense of community.
  2. Demonstrating Practical Care: Home hospitality can be a means of offering practical support. This could involve providing a meal for a neighbor who is sick, offering childcare for a single parent, or simply being a listening ear over a cup of tea. These acts of service, offered within the context of a welcoming home, can be incredibly impactful.
  3. Sharing Life and Faith Naturally: Opening your home provides a natural environment for sharing your life, including your faith, without pressure or formality. As relationships deepen, opportunities may arise to speak about what is important to you in a genuine and relatable way. For example, sharing a meal and conversation can organically lead to discussions about values and beliefs.
  4. Creating a Sense of Belonging: For those who may feel isolated or marginalized, being welcomed into a home can be a powerful experience of belonging. It communicates value and worth, demonstrating that they are seen and cared for. Inviting a new family in the neighborhood for dinner can help them feel more integrated into the community.
  5. Modeling Hospitality for Others: When we practice home hospitality, we model this behavior for our families and those around us. It teaches the importance of generosity, openness, and valuing relationships. Children who grow up in hospitable homes are more likely to extend hospitality to others.

Taking the Next Steps

Embracing the principles of The Neighboring Church and the practice of home hospitality is a journey, not a destination. Here are some practical next steps you can take:

  1. Know Your Neighbors: Start by intentionally getting to know the people who live closest to you. Learn their names, their interests, and some of their story. A simple conversation while getting the mail or tending your garden can be a starting point.
  2. Initiate Simple Interactions: Look for opportunities for small acts of kindness and connection. This could be offering help with yard work, bringing over baked goods, or simply stopping for a brief chat.
  3. Open Your Door: Consider simple ways to extend hospitality in your home. This doesn’t require a perfect house or elaborate meals. Start with inviting one or two neighbors over for coffee, tea, or a casual meal.
  4. Be Present and Listen: When you do open your home, focus on being present with your guests, listening attentively to their stories, and showing genuine interest in their lives.
  5. Be Consistent and Patient: Building authentic relationships takes time and consistency. Don’t be discouraged if initial efforts don’t yield immediate deep connections. Continue to be open and available to your neighbors.
  6. Encourage Your Church Community: Share the ideas from “The Neighboring Church” with your church leaders and fellow members. Explore ways your church can collectively encourage and equip people to be better neighbors. This could involve small group discussions, sharing stories of neighboring, or organizing neighborhood-focused service projects.

The Neighboring Church offers a compelling vision for a church that is deeply connected to its community, one relationship at a time. By prioritizing the simple yet profound act of loving our neighbors, expressed in practical ways like home hospitality, we can move beyond programs and truly embody the love of Christ in the world around us, transforming our neighborhoods and ourselves in the process.

Navigating Change with Wisdom: Gandalf as a Timeless Model for the Modern Elder

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Embarking on the journey to becoming a modern elder is akin to setting sail on a voyage of self-discovery, one where the maps are drawn not just from personal experience but also from the timeless wisdom embedded in the stories we read. 

Just as ancient mariners navigated by celestial bodies, those seeking to embrace this evolving role can find guidance in the enduring patterns of human character and experience captured in literary archetypes. From the sage advisor to the resilient hero, these recurring figures offer profound insights into the qualities, challenges, and ultimate contributions of those who embrace the mantle of elderhood in a contemporary world. 

By exploring these archetypal representations, we can better understand the multifaceted nature of this transformative journey and glean valuable perspectives on how to navigate its unique terrain.

Previous individual posts and series have taken a more contemporary view of the journey to my becoming a  modern elder. In addition, Nehemiah provides an excellent source of characteristics a modern elder should emulate. While those approaches are certainly valuable, over the past few months I have come to realize that journey can draw from many different sources. They even all don’t have to be contemporary.

All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us.

Gandalf, from J.R.R. Tolkien’s “Lord of the Rings”

In an era often captivated by the allure of youth and the relentless pursuit of innovation, the concept of the “modern elder” emerges as a vital counter-narrative. It champions the enduring significance of accumulated wisdom, seasoned experience, and the profound impact of mentorship in navigating the ever-increasing complexities of contemporary life. While the term itself is relatively new, the archetype of the wise elder resonates across cultures and throughout the annals of storytelling. Within the rich tapestry of literature, perhaps no character embodies this archetype more compellingly than Gandalf, the enigmatic and powerful wizard from J.R.R. Tolkien’s monumental 3-volume work, The Lord of the Rings, and his earlier book, The Hobbit.

For reference, I have long been a fan of Tolkien’s work – I first acquired and read the LOTR paperback versions around 1970, as I was beginning junior high. In the many years since then, I have reread both The Hobbit and LOTR several times, and have been working through the rest of Tolkien’s works. In addition, there are many scholars and serious students of Tolkien who have written about his works; there’s certainly no shortage of source material!

Earlier this year, I began a Tolkien quest of my own: reading through the 12-volume History of Middle-earth. The History of Middle-earth dives deep into the creation of the myths, languages, and histories behind Tolkien’s classics – The Hobbit, The Lord of the Rings, and The Silmarillion – all thanks to Tolkien’s son Christopher’s thorough documentation and insightful commentary.

As I jumped around the different volumes, it struck me that there was one character who stood out in terms of a modern elder – even though this was a fictional character! At first glance, drawing a parallel between a figure of high fantasy and a contemporary social concept might seem like a whimsical exercise.

Gandalf, with his iconic flowing grey beard, his pointed hat that speaks of ancient lore, and the staff that serves as both a tool and a symbol of his authority, inhabits a world of magic and mythical creatures. Yet, beneath this fantastical veneer lies a core of qualities, a fundamental essence, that aligns remarkably with the defining principles of a modern elder. By delving deeper into Gandalf’s actions and his counsel throughout LOTR (and the Hobbit), we uncover a timeless model for those seeking to embrace the profound and evolving role of elderhood in our own world.

A Deep Wellspring of Hard-Earned Experience

One of the foundational tenets of the modern elder is not simply the accumulation of years, but the depth and breadth of life experiences that have shaped their understanding of the world. They are individuals who have weathered personal and societal storms, celebrated moments of profound joy, and, most importantly, extracted invaluable lessons from both triumph and tribulation. Gandalf, as one of the Istari – angelic beings sent to Middle-earth in human form millennia prior to the events of The Lord of the Rings – possesses an almost incomprehensible reservoir of experience. He has witnessed the ebb and flow of ages, the rise and fall of civilizations both great and small, and has engaged in battles against ancient evils that predate recorded history in the Tolkien timeline. This vast tapestry of lived history profoundly informs his judgment, allowing him to offer perspectives and insights that younger, less seasoned characters within Middle-earth simply cannot grasp. Consider his strategic counsel to the Fellowship of the Ring, advice drawn not just from tactical acumen but from centuries of understanding the insidious nature of darkness and the enduring power of hope, even in the face of overwhelming despair. His knowledge of ancient lore, forgotten languages, and the intricate web of Middle-earth’s history provides a crucial foundation for the Fellowship’s perilous quest.

The Transformative Power of Intentional Mentorship

A central and defining role of the modern elder is that of a mentor – an individual who consciously and compassionately guides, supports, and empowers others to discover their own potential and navigate their unique paths. Gandalf stands as the quintessential mentor figure throughout The Lord of the Rings. He recognizes the inherent courage within Frodo Baggins, nurturing his nascent bravery and guiding him through the daunting responsibility of bearing the One Ring. He patiently steers Aragorn towards embracing his rightful destiny as the king, offering both encouragement and challenging him to rise to the occasion. His interactions with the entire Fellowship are marked by timely and insightful advice, often delivered in cryptic yet ultimately illuminating ways. Crucially, Gandalf does not dictate or impose his will; instead, he illuminates possibilities, encourages critical thinking, and fosters self-reliance. His famous and oft-quoted line, “All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us,” perfectly encapsulates this empowering approach, emphasizing individual agency and the importance of choice rather than blind obedience to authority. He sees the potential in each member of the Fellowship, even the seemingly insignificant hobbits, and helps them recognize their own strengths.

Navigating the Inevitable Currents of Change with Grace and Adaptability

The modern world is characterized by a relentless and often disorienting pace of change. Modern elders, having witnessed numerous societal and personal transformations throughout their lives, possess a unique ability to navigate these shifting currents with a sense of perspective, resilience, and adaptability. Gandalf, despite his ancient origins and deep understanding of tradition, remains remarkably relevant and influential in a rapidly evolving Middle-earth. He recognizes the shifting tides of power, the emergence of new threats, and the need for unconventional alliances. His dramatic return as Gandalf the White after his battle with the Balrog in the Mines of Moria signifies not a nostalgic clinging to the past, but a powerful evolution. He embraces new responsibilities and wields a greater authority, demonstrating an ability to adapt and grow in the face of profound personal and external challenges. This transformation underscores the idea that true elderhood is not about stagnation, but about continued growth and relevance.

An Unwavering Anchor of Enduring Values

In a world often swayed by fleeting trends and shifting moral landscapes, modern elders often serve as vital anchors of enduring values. They embody principles such as integrity, compassion, resilience, and a deep-seated commitment to ethical conduct. Gandalf consistently demonstrates these fundamental qualities throughout his interactions. He exhibits unwavering loyalty to his friends and allies, remains steadfast in his commitment to the forces of good, and possesses a profound empathy for the struggles and vulnerabilities of others, especially the seemingly small and unassuming hobbits. His moral compass remains true and unwavering, providing a vital ethical framework for the other characters as they navigate the treacherous path towards Mordor and confront the seductive power of the Ring. His wisdom is not merely intellectual; it is deeply intertwined with a strong sense of justice and a profound understanding of the importance of compassion.

Influence Beyond Brute Force – The Power of Wisdom and Connection

While Gandalf undoubtedly possesses considerable magical power, his true and lasting strength lies not solely in his ability to wield spells and command the elements, but in his wisdom, his profound understanding of people and their motivations, and his remarkable ability to inspire hope and foster unity. Modern elders understand that true influence transcends physical capabilities or material wealth. Their power resides in their accumulated insights, their extensive networks of connections, and their capacity to see the larger, interconnected picture. Gandalf’s impact on the War of the Ring is not solely through his direct magical interventions, but perhaps more significantly through his strategic guidance, his ability to forge alliances between disparate factions (Elves, Men, Dwarves, and Hobbits), and his unwavering belief in the inherent capacity for good to triumph over evil, even when all seems lost. He understands the power of collaboration and the importance of recognizing the unique strengths that each individual and group brings to a common cause.

While Gandalf is undeniably a figure of fantasy, a powerful wizard inhabiting a richly imagined world, his essence resonates deeply with the core principles of the modern elder. He embodies the profound wisdom gained through millennia of experience, the transformative power of intentional mentorship, the crucial ability to navigate change with grace and adaptability, and the steadfastness of enduring core values. By thoughtfully examining his character, his actions, and his interactions with the world around him, we gain a richer and more nuanced understanding of the vital role that elders – both fictional and real – play in guiding, inspiring, and ultimately shaping the course of our journeys through life. Gandalf serves as a timeless reminder that true strength lies not just in overt power, but in the enduring wisdom of a life lived with purpose, integrity, and a generous spirit of guidance. His legacy extends far beyond the realm of fantasy, offering profound insights into the enduring value of elderhood in our own modern world.

For another model of modern eldership, see the series on Nehemiah here.

The Ever-Growing TBR Pile: A Bibliophile’s Beautiful Burden

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In some corner or horizontal space of nearly every book lover’s home sits a tower of possibilities – a stack of unread books that grows with each passing week, defying gravity and good intentions alike. This is the TBR pile: “To Be Read,” a physical manifestation of literary ambition that stands as both promise and gentle rebuke.

Since I’m an overachiever – if only in this area – in my house, particularly my office, there are multiple TBR piles.

The Anatomy of a TBR Pile

The typical TBR pile is a fascinating ecosystem of its own. At its foundation rests the ambitious purchases – perhaps a weighty classic one has been meaning to tackle for years, or the award-winner your friends are talking about. The middle section often contains gifts from well-meaning friends and relatives who correctly identified the recipient as a reader but perhaps missed the mark on genre preferences. The middle section for me also contains my spur-of-the-moment volumes from the new section at my library. Finishing out my TBR pile are the “Top of the Stack” – either impulse buys, those books acquired during moments of weakness at bookstore sales or the latest weekly “holds” from my library searches.

What makes a TBR pile unique to each reader is not just its content but its organization – or delightful lack thereof. Some bibliophiles maintain meticulously categorized stacks sorted by genre, publication date, or reading priority. Others embrace chaos theory, allowing their collection to exist as a jumbled monument to literary possibility where the next read might be determined by whichever volume happens to be most accessible when the current book is finished.

As a firm adherent to the “both/and” philosophy, I utilize both of the above: some TBR piles have definite themes and organization; others are a haphazard collection at best.

The Weekly TBR Pilgrimage

As a dedicated reader, my local Charlotte Mecklenburg library branch serves as both sanctuary and hunting ground. Weekly visits become ritual, a sacred appointment kept regardless of weather or competing engagements. Long written in stone in my calendar is a weekly “Lunch & Learn” – an early morning library visit followed by lunch at Big Bitez Grill. These excursions follow predictable patterns: the return of last week’s borrows, the browsing of new arrivals, and finally, the inevitable checkout of more volumes than one could reasonably expect to finish before their due date. Luckily, on almost all checkouts, up to three renewals take place automatically. Best of all, there are no overdue fines!

An example would be last week’s library visit, when I picked up seven books about J.R.R. Tolkien’s works about Middle-earth. As depicted in the image below, they are this week’s “Top of the Stack” which I am reading through at the moment. Most likely, all of these books will eventually be acquired and become part of my Tolkien library.

While I have a long history of library visits going back to my childhood, library visits have evolved beyond merely walking the physical stacks. I arrive with a carefully curated hold list of titles gleaned from topic-specific searches, online reading groups, literary podcasts, and social media recommendations. The library’s computer system becomes a treasure map, leading to searching online and then reserving volumes I want to check out.

TBR and the Quest for Synoptical Reading

Among the most ambitious readers exists a practice known as synoptical reading – the art of reading multiple books on the same subject to develop a more comprehensive understanding. This approach transforms the solitary act of reading into something resembling academic research, with books in conversation with one another through the mind of their reader. Of the four types of reading, this is by far my favorite.

A TBR pile built around synoptical reading takes on a different character. Instead of random accumulation, these collections grow with purpose. One might find three biographies of the same historical figure, offering different perspectives on a single life. Or perhaps a stack of novels from the same literary movement, each illuminating different facets of a shared aesthetic. Science books examining competing theories, philosophy texts in direct dialogue with one another – the synoptical TBR pile becomes a curated symposium waiting to happen.

Library visits for the synoptical reader involve strategic searches through subject headings and cross-references. What began as interest in a single volume often expands into the exploration of an entire subject area, with each new discovery adding another title to the ever-growing list.

Truth be told, several of my TBR piles contribute to my individual libraries. Largest, of course, is my Disney library – 500+ volumes and growing. Beyond that are several that have origins and applications in my former work: Guest Experiences (315 ); First Place Hospitality (203 ); and SUMS Remix (576 ). Other examples of my smaller synoptic libraries include Bridges (14), Shepherding (17 ), author Stephen Hunter (26), and the Burger Quest (24 ). There are more, but you get the point: for me, TBR is almost equivalent to synoptical reading.

The Psychology of the Unread

There’s a particular joy in acquiring books that exists independently from the pleasure of reading them. The Japanese term tsundoku describes the habit of buying books and letting them pile up unread, and many bibliophiles recognize themselves in this gentle accusation. This has been wrongly applied to me – if I buy it, or even check it out from the library, it’s going to be read.

A healthy TBR pile serves as a buffer against the unthinkable – the prospect of having nothing new to read. It stands as a promise of adventures yet to come, of knowledge not yet acquired but tantalizingly within reach. Each unread book represents potential rather than failure, a conversation waiting to happen between author and reader.

Yet there’s also the guilt. The reproachful spines of books purchased with enthusiasm but subsequently neglected. The nagging awareness that at current reading speeds, one might need several lifetimes to complete even the existing collection, let alone new additions.

Finding Peace with the Pile

I would like to think that I am becoming a wise bibliophile, having made peace with my TBR piles, understanding that some books may remain a long-delayed read, and that’s perfectly acceptable to me. The pile serves purposes beyond mere pre-reading storage: it’s a physical manifestation of intellectual curiosity, a declaration of reading intentions, and sometimes simply office decor that accurately reflects my personality and interests.

Weekly library visits continue regardless, new books are still acquired, and synoptical reading projects are still planned with enthusiasm. The TBR pile grows and occasionally contracts, but never disappears entirely. And in this constant state of literary potential energy waits the true joy of the book lover’s life – not just in the reading, but in the anticipation of all those worlds waiting to be explored, one opened cover at a time.

Part of a regular series on 27gen, entitled Wednesday Weekly Reader.

During my elementary school years one of the things I looked forward to the most was the delivery of “My Weekly Reader,” a weekly educational magazine designed for children and containing news-based current events.

It became a regular part of my love for reading, and helped develop my curiosity about the world around us.