What’s becoming clearer and clearer to me is that the most sacred moments, the ones in which I feel God’s presence most profoundly, when I feel the goodness of the world most arrestingly, take place at the table. The particular alchemy of celebrations and food, of connecting people and serving what I’ve made with my own hands, comes together as more than the sum of their parts.
Shauna Niequist
Bread & Wine is a collection of essays about family relationships, friendships, and the meals that bring us together.
This mix of Anne Lamott and Barefoot Contessa is a funny, honest, and vulnerable spiritual memoir.
Bread & Wine is a celebration of food shared, reminding readers of the joy found in a life around the table. It’s about the ways God teaches and nourishes people as they nourish the people around them. It’s about hunger, both physical and otherwise, and the connections between the two.
From the beginning of the Bible, food has played a central role in many pivotal stories and events – like the forbidden fruit from the Tree of Knowledge, Esau trading his birthright for a meal, the miraculous provision of manna in the wilderness, Jesus turning water into wine at a wedding, and the Last Supper becoming the basis for centuries of Christian tradition. Food matters deeply, both then and now.
However, the church has drifted away from emphasizing the physical acts of eating and cooking, preferring to focus solely on the mind, heart and soul. Meanwhile, modern society has pushed people towards artificial, mass-produced, sterile foods consumed hastily without appreciation. Many no longer see significance in the meals we eat and the act of gathering around the table.
But we should reclaim the importance of food and dining. For many, sharing a meal can be life at its richest. Rediscovering the spiritual meaning in what we eat, how we eat it, who we eat with, and where we eat can provide new profundity to our daily lives. The dinner table offers an opportunity to reconnect with something we have lost along the way.
Reading Bread & Wine should move you to bring back the table to the center of your home. Shauna Niequist’s challenge is to do just that.
She urges you to express your love to someone by inviting them over for dinner at 6 p.m. Open your door wide and welcome your loved ones into the inevitable chaos with open arms and laughter. Turn on the stove, chop ingredients, stir and season with unbridled love. Start with an onion and olive oil, then let your creativity flow into one of a million possible dishes.
Gather your loved ones around your table and nourish them with love, honesty and the flavors and aromas that evoke cherished memories and the best stories of your lives. Invest yourself fully in the sacred bonds of friendship – God’s greatest evidence of His presence on earth. More than anything, Niequist implores us to come to the table, literally and metaphorically.
We don’t come to the table to fight, prove points or stir up conflict. We come because our hunger draws us there. We come with needs and an admission of our human fragility. The table is a great equalizer, a level playing field many seek. It’s a place where we can stop striving, remove our masks, and allow ourselves to be nourished like children.
In a world that prides self-sufficiency and powering through needs, the table offers a safe space to rest in our vulnerability. It’s where we can let others attend to our needs. If a home is a body, the table is the heart – the sustaining center of life and health.


