Faith formation is connected to and increases with hospitality. Households that regularly host non-family guests are more likely to talk about faith, pray, or read the Bible together.

Barna

Barna studies have revealed much about the state of religion in the United States an how faith is perceived and discussed in public. But what about how faith is being nurtured in private – with the spouses, children, parents, roommates, and even frequent visitors who spend time under our roofs?

How Christians order their days and connect with relatives and housemates is a critical aspect of spiritual growth. Households of Faith, the second in a series of studies produced in partnership with Lutheran Hour Ministries, presents a vivid portrait of the domestic lives of U.S. practicing Christians, including:

• An overview of modern living arrangements and the relationships that define them
• Details of housemates’ regular interactions – practical, recreational, and spiritual
• Insights about relationships that have a positive and enduring influence on housemates
• Analysis of how faith heritage is linked to beliefs and rituals in adulthood
• Interviews with experts in elder, family, and youth ministry about reaching a variety of households
• Custom profiles of vibrant households that embrace hospitality and spiritual practices

According to the research Barna conducted for this book, here’s what happens when close friends get together:

• 51% have deep conversations
• 46% play together
• 41% have dinner on a regular basis
• 34% ask for help
• 33% go on vacation together
• 30% appear in family photos
• 25% borrow household items

These percentages are among those who have regular visitors.

On the flip side, 4 in 10 practicing Christian households do not regularly host visitors. Couples are the least likely (49%) to admit they don’t have people over very often.

In summarizing the recommendations that stemmed from their research, Barna concluded they could do no better than Romans 12, which begins with its famous exhortation to be “a living and holy sacrifice.” As the chapter goes on, the focus shifts from the individual to the collective – from “your bodies” to “Christ’s body.” We are reminded:

• “We all belong to each other.”
• “Love each other with genuine affection.”
• “Work hard and serve the Lord enthusiastically.”
• “Keep on praying.”
• “Don’t be too proud to enjoy the company of ordinary people.”
• “Always eager to practice hospitality.”

Taken together, these principles build not only a vibrant household but a flourishing community of faith.

inspired and adapted from Households of Faith