Milestones of Love: Celebrating 44 Years Together

Today, Anita and I are celebrating our 44th wedding anniversary.

Or, to put it another way, that’s:

  • 2,296 weeks
  • 16,072 days
  • 385,728 hours
  • 23,143,680 minutes
  • 1,388,620,800 seconds

Anniversaries can’t just be measured in time

  • 2 apartments and 5 houses in 5 cities in 4 states for the first 16 years, then…
  • 1 house for the next 28 years (but now it looks very little on the inside like then!)
  • 4 kids, 4 years apart
  • 3 daughters-in law and 1 son-in-law
  • 9 grandchildren
  • 26 years of public school (and PTA meetings! And fund-raisers! And science projects! And field trips! And…)
  • 36 years of children’s’ sports (4 kids, multiple sports, multiple seasons – you do the math)
  • 7 sets of stitches in one kid before he was 6; and 3 for all the others combined
  • 1 broken leg – different kid
  • 1 broken wrist – different kid
  • 1 torn ACL and meniscus – different kid
  • 3, 13 year-old trips with our kids (one unnamed son never redeemed his!)
  • 44 anniversary dates – dinners, movies, concerts, plays, trips – all great experiences (even #10, which took a few hours for the conversation to thaw…)
  • 2 dogs
  • 12 cars
  • 39 fresh-cut Christmas trees (including the first, a very-Charlie Brown one), then…
  • 1 artificial Christmas tree
  • 16 different jobs (for the two of us) in 6 different industries
  • 5 phone numbers (till cell phones came along, to which we added 6 more numbers)
  • 4 place settings of our original everyday dishes (out of 14 to start with)
  • 4,943 books (give or take a few)
  • 4 high school graduations
  • 3 college graduations
  • 1 master’s graduation
  • 1 entire family Disney World trip
  • 4 couple’s Disney World trips
  • 1 Disney Cruise
  • A few tears
  • Lots of laughter
  • Good friends, near and far
  • Treasured memories
  • Adventures around every corner

How do I love thee?

 Let me continue to count the ways…

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